JERKS
Guys are jerks, seriously!
Okay, I know I should not be generalizing. Yet I do think that most guys would flirt and cheat and lie about it … etc if they had a chance to do so. It is the irresistable curse, and they do it regardless of the consequences.
Today as I arrived to my first lecture, I was almost falling asleep while waiting for the professor to arrive. Two girls were sitting right behind me and I could hear everything they said; I mean they were talking right into my ear. You would think they would keep it down especially that the topic of conversation was private, but I guess they did not care. Both girls are married, and while one seems to be getting along with her husband, the other seems to be in trouble. Apparently, her husband has been cheating on her.
The girl is young, young as in her early twenties. Her husband is 25. They have been together for a long time, and they only got married recently. Still, he has been cheating on her for over a year. Apparently, she was left in the dark and he was not planning on telling her anytime soon –if at all. One day, the wife was driving the husband’s car and the husband was driving the wife’s car. The mistress -who works close to the couple’s place- was leaving work when she saw the husband’s car parked outside. She thought he was home alone and actually went up there. When the wife opened the door, she immediately knew what was going on as she already had doubts due to her husband’s behavior.
So the wife asked the mistress to stay and called her husband to come home as soon as possible. The mistress admitted they were having sexual relationships. It started when the couple was engaged, stopped for sometime after they got married, but continued later on because the jerk, sorry I mean the husband, could not resist texting and calling other women. It turns out he would flirt around and get back home with a bunch of girls numbers in his pockets. The husband tried to deny the accusations and claimed that the mistress is trying to ruin his life because she is in love with him and he married someone else. The mistress showed the wife the texts and phone calls, so he had to shut up. In one of the text messages, he had said that he married the wrong person. How humiliating and pathetic.
Eventually, he blamed it all on her and told her that it is her fault for having insecurities about her body. By the way, the girl has a nice, fit body. He probably has a beer belly. He also told her that being mad at him is forbidden because it ‘upsets’ him, so she basically has to put a show. Anyway, she told his parents and they believed him over her. She has no family here, and she decided to put up with it until she graduates and gets a job to support herself.
I feel sorry for the girl, she is young and she already is going to get a divorce?
What to take away from today’s story: If you guys ever decide to cheat, choose a smarter girl who would not go straight up to your place.
On a more serious note; true love is hard to find, learn to appreciate what you have because otherwise, no one will appreciate you. What goes around, comes around.
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as chris rock once said: “A man is only as faithful as his options”.
wow u heard all that while just sitting there waiting for the class to start…how sad for that girl…well at least she knows now and if she is smart enough she will breakup with him..what a jerk!
Well Sam, I got there early
They did too, and the professor came in late. They said many things, but I put a summary hehehe.
She said she will get a divorce as soon as she is able to be on her own. You know, I honestly believe that if he did it once, he will do it twice.
I guess I have zero tolerance
Some Guys! are way so rude! and they dont even deserve to have a woman in their life! really!
This is so unfortunate. He’s saying that its 7aram shes upsetting him? It isn’t 7aram he’s cheating? lol men.. albi bwaje3ni for people like this. I have zero tolerance to such subjects too.
Maher: I know, it is hard to find a true man. Women cheat as well, but I feel like men do it more often because they are more likely to get away with it.
Batoul: 3anjad … Double standards. I was thinking to myself; he thinks it is okay for him to cheat but not okay for her to show a reaction. Is it not enough that she must be feeling like crap now? What hurts is that the woman pays for it. Since women are more fragile, they are more badly affected by it. Also, I have read that many women attribute the cheating acts as a fault in them that made the men look around :s It is a combination of being humiliated, feeling like a loser, and not feeling good enough. Simply wrong!
so girls doesnt cheat :S
I know many cases in which the wife is cheating on her husband here in jordan , so its not about being a male or a female , its something with person him/her self.
and like a dear friend of mine told me when we were talking about the same subject , she said :
if the girl didnt respect her self you should.
“Society is more tolerant of men’s misdeeds”
AND
“It’s more like an appetite thing for men, more oral in a way. Their partners are more disposable. And the experiences are more disposable.”
There is no question that men cheat more than women. I have read about it, and I found out that women tend to cheat after they find out that their men are cheating. It is more like the woman is searching for her dignity that was stolen by the man.
Infidelity is one of the top reasons why people get divorces.
Batoul:
you are saying that women are more fragile which I cant deny but you didnt consider the effect on a man who finds out that his wife is cheating on him .
men think in a different way , its a stab in his back , his manhood ( talking as an arab who believes in traditions ) and I’m not giving reasons for such kind of behavior but I just want you guys to look at this problem in both ways dont blame men for something u girls do too