At people who lack the basics when it comes to common courtesy.
Some people are a pain in the neck when it comes to respect. They tend to think being nice means being weak. No, I am not weak, and I can stand up for myself. Just because I choose not to be like you does not mean you can take advantage of it.
Learn how to give people some space because there will be a time when you need yours.
Wedad .. said,
October 8, 2006 @ 3:48 pm
Tell me about it (enno y3ni ana miss nice lol)
You chose to be cruel and you’re having what you want, well I chose to be nice and I’m having what I want with no lose.
But people connect being strong with being mean, enno you’re not that strong if you are not mean.
Well, meen betla3 el 5asraan bel a5er? Surely not you, so let them need the respect someday o ma ylaa2o :ch: whatever (“,)
Mr. Dream said,
October 8, 2006 @ 5:41 pm
You can choose not to be nice to everyone. Be nice to yourself first, then be nice to the people who deserve it.
Symbian OS said,
October 9, 2006 @ 12:55 am
naah, i diss agree with Mr. Dream….
be nice to everyone, and when u find someone doesn’t deserve the nice treatment, then try to avoid dealing with him.
originally, human being are sweet hearted, originally there was honest, then lie appear, originally there was the GOOD then the BAD appear.
so fallow this rule in your life, and if you felt ofended one day, then make sure that you’ll be rewarded in the after life
Name said,
October 9, 2006 @ 7:16 am
Just be your self
Dont give people space to think you are weak , they will directly take advantage of you.
Finally , Its big world full of species, meeting someone from now and then not that big issue.
Jump over , you are done.
Hala said,
October 11, 2006 @ 10:08 pm
Wedad: I loved your reaction
I agree with you; there is a fine line between standing up for yourself and what you believe in and being rude.
Mr. Dream: Define nice
You do not want to be rude, but you have to draw some lines.
Symbian OS: You are too kind! Are you not? lol. You may be right, the way you deal with others depends on how they deal with you.
Name: “Jump over, you are done.” You would think such people will leave no effect on your life whatsoever. Surprisingly though, they do
Mr. Dream said,
October 12, 2006 @ 8:07 pm
Symbian OS: LOL, you’re too kind
Spoiled: “Nice” is when you treat people the same way you wish to be treated. Of course, you can stick to the lines without being excessively nice.
Hala said,
October 12, 2006 @ 9:37 pm
Mr. Dream: I agree with you
So you called me Spoiled although I have never mentioned it on my blog
Mr. Dream said,
October 12, 2006 @ 9:47 pm
Opps, sorry
i did indeed, but please allow me to keep my name on mahjoob.com a secret. I’d like to be taken more seriously here than there :-]
Hala said,
October 13, 2006 @ 9:59 am
You got it